When I speak to groups about how faith grows in the family, I ask them to name a favorite tradition. Responses almost always include something about the Christmas holidays. While standard traditions are part of the mix, I find it fascinating to hear the particular way in which families adapt common traditions. Whether it’s trimming the tree, sending out greetings, welcoming guests, wrapping presents, or preparing special foods, there is often a “family flavor” given to each tradition. Underlying the stories around these is a potent message: this is the way my family celebrates. It speaks strongly to the power of tradition to convey belonging and a sense of identity. We know who we are by what we do.
The reason this is so critical to the formation of faith in the home is that it parallels the traditions in the Church. We, too, know who we are by what we do. Liturgical and sacramental rituals remain vital because they link us with generations past and with faith communities around the globe. Blessing, anointing, consecrating – these are just some of the traditions that have stood the test of time, bringing us together around a communal table that remains steadfast in the midst of change and turmoil. Such knowledge is reason for great hope, particularly during Advent and Christmas. Cherishing our Catholic Christmas traditions – both at home and in our Church – is a lovely way to embrace the sacredness of these sacred seasons, ones devoted to attentiveness and the mystery of Emmanuel, God-with-us.
Bright Ideas
Download resources for Advent to use in your parish or home as a way to deepen your appreciation for the traditions of this sacred season.
Download In Thanksgiving for Catholic Christmas Traditions Prayer Card and use it as a way to reflect on the beauty of your own traditions during the Advent and Christmas seasons.